Visitors

Janie has been meeting her share of new friends and family slowly but surely!

My Dad's brother Uncle Dan and Aunt Nettie were in town for a conference and came to our house with an adorable little dress, hat and fancy sandals for Janie. They live in Spokane and have really cute grandkids of their own who we don't get to see often enough!

Emma, Owen and Chrissie came to play and brought dinner one night- man we miss our neighbors!! Emma is still Francie's idol and Owen is such a big kid now, he was three when they moved in next to our old house.


and our new neighbors (a year new :) brought over their pet bunny for a visit last week… Maisie was SO excited.

it was really funny, he wanted to wait until his sister got back to take a picture of all the kids and told me to take my girls first. When I said "Maisie look at the camera" and she of course ignored me, he jumped in to hold her head up towards the camera and tried to hide behind her.

You can barely see him except the little hands on Maisie's head!

and of course we had to clean up for all these friends… three kids at the same time is no small feat.

and besides the point of this post but Francie is REALLY into The Berenstain Bears books right now. The Frimel Family passed on their very large collection of 49 books and she is obsessed with them (partly because they came from cool kids Kelly, Will and JP) and partly because she loves the stories and lessons - especially to spout them back to her sisters. I didn't know the author's son continued writing the books and they even had a third kid, Baby Honey Bear who stays a baby a la Maggie Simpson- there are some serious topics in the end of the series too! Thanks Frimels :)

and she still looooves this little baby girl

and also besides the point but just keeping things even-steven… Maisie is obsessed with all things spicy and tells Heff the tobasco or sauce he puts on everything is "PICY DADDY!"

in other Maisie news, look who can sport a bow with finally enough hair on her head?! (this was the day Francie and I went to pre-school and Emmy had a just-Maisie special morning)

I love Janie's expression sometimes like "Oh jeez, what is coming next around this place?!"

Janie and BlaBla

"BlaBla meet Janie. Janie, meet BlaBla"

"I got ya kid."

"Once you start rollin over your face won't be so squished Janie"

Just hanging out

"Woah - that doll just got a lot bigger"

"Oh wait, that's my sister"

Sister love can be a lot

"Oh no- is the other one going to come attack me now?!"

We love you Janie!

You are a good sport to take ALL the love you get in stride

Maisie took this picture of me and "Janie Girl" (the nickname the girls started that seems to be sticking around)

Birthday Love

I'm having a great birthday so far - how could I not with these three around!?

And Heff worked from home until 8:30 this morning when Emmy came over to ensure I got to sleep in - my favorite birthday present and much needed after poor Maisie was up with a fever (from her immunizations we think) from 1-3:45am and then Janie up after that. But instead of being crazed up all night I was just feeling lucky to be these girls' mom. And thanks for the Tinkerbell and Dora mylar balloons Heff! (Emmy said he told her he left them in the hallway to remind the girls it was mom's birthday :) Off to enjoy this good weather for the day while it lasts...

Rainbow Brights

Bedtime in stripes... I tried to take a couple pictures of the girls before bed the other night- after 10 minutes of snapping pictures I am sweating and exhausted- it's not easy work! I expect we'll get about one good picture a year for the next 10 years if we're lucky, but I guess the outtakes tell the real story anyway :) Lots of fun with these little monkeys- especially at bedtime. The other night the two big girls had a sleepover at Jannie's and Heff said "as much of a pain it is to get them all PJ'ed up, books read, milk dolled out and put in bed- I miss not having bedtimes even for a night!"

The girls love to "help" Janie do tummy time ("umm-ee hime" if you hear Maisie saying something barely perceptible- that's probably what she means)

the little nut

Francie really wants to hold AND carry Janie everywhere- we're working on only doing this in small doses (at least until she can at least control her own head!) But Francie is pretty gentle and sweet with her...

As good as it gets

strange- I wonder what bossy-big-sisterness is going on here? ;)

a rainbow of fruit flavors

MAD MAD Janie MAD! I think that's enough torture for one night. Sorry Janie - but this might just be a taste of what life is like with two doting big sisters!

Pretty Excited….

About our big day tomorrow... (besides being my birthday :) Can you guess what class the girls start tomorrow by the subtle hint above? ;)

They'll be off and running!

and hopefully in better mood's than they were this afternoon trying on their new cleat's… oh life is so hard when you are 1 and 3

ahhh now I remember the source of the sadness- only ONE Dora ball!

happiness somewhat restored after we found the red soccer ball… always something sharing with your sisters!

Preschool Girl

Last Wednesday Francie and I went to "observe" her class at Montecito Preschool where she will go to next year! She was SO excited and was counting down the days. Jannie and I had gone for a tour the week before and it seems like the perfect place for Francie. They have bunnies chickens, frogs, lots of bikes and of course arts and crafts. She'll be in the Fours Program three afternoons a week which works well with our sleeping-in-kind-of-schedule :)

Getting ready to go! (had to observe the morning class at 9am = why I look so tired)

My big girl

The classroom is so cute and they have four teachers for 20 kids so they got to do all kinds of short little projects and activities moving around the room from table to table

Circle Time in the Yellow Room (I was sitting in the back with Janie (who was getting lots of attention, one little boy who looked like the Jerry McGuire kid kept looking at her and saying "I just love babies")

Snack time - but they had to practice cutting straight lines with scissors before they got their apples and graham crackers, I like the discipline! :)

Her favorite part of the day….

riding the "5-cycle" five person bike with the other kids!

I think she's ready for school - I'll be so sad but we still have five months of the un-scheduled life before SCHOOL starts forever! (we're easing into it with afternoons at least, Jannie told me not to do mornings when I was considering it as she said "It will ruin your life!" and Heff wonders where his wife and daughter got their night owl genes?)

Janie's First Smile!

Yesterday Francie was cooing at Janie in her little seat, telling her she was about to go "try school" for the first time and Janie smiled her first real smile! Maisie, Emmy and I were right there too. Of course impossible to catch on camera but here was a close-enough shot with my phone as she slept… a half smile in her dreams will half to suffice as memory for your first real smile Janie Girl.

Happy Birthday Clara

Last week we celebrated Clara Marie's 2nd birthday at her house for dinner- Oma and Opa were here and Jannie came along to work on knitting projects with Oma too. Maisie and Clara are big buds now, they ask for each other all the time and Clara calls here exclusively "Maisie Mooo." Francie tries to run the show and they all just entertain themselves now. Clara is getting so big and she is so blond. Can't wait to see her as a big sister next month!

digging into her cupcake

cousin kisses for Clara

Awwww the love- (and isn't her feathery cake pretty!? I was in SF doing some research for Bumble and saw it at Tartine Bakery, Bavarian PassionFruit with Lime soaked cake and coconut frosting… couldn't resist it for the birthday girl! well the adults appreciated even more)

time to eat cake

love this face Clara

and after dinner some plasma car riding (a gift from Oma) and puzzles with Clara-the-puzzle-master

Mexican Dinner

I forgot I had these pictures and they never made it on the blog :) We went to Casa Lupe a few weeks ago when Janie was 3 weeks old for our first real family dinner out with just the five of us. It was great besides a) Maisie being a stinker and picking her nose in pictures like the top one b) Francie making Grumpy-McGrumps faces and c) Maisie spilling an entire tall glass of cold ice water right INTO the carseat while Janie was sleeping in it! And of course she had already gone through my spare diaper bag outfit that day so she was in a onesie and hoodie the rest of dinner. But the Margaritas made it all worth it!

yup- that glass all over her and the carseat

Little Stinker #1

Little Stinker #2

Little Stinker #3 (not- she's still perfect :)

looks like we're in for lots more of these very unpeaceful, not-relaxing, crazy family dinners with our little stinkers to come - we're not complaining!

Big Sisters

Just trying to stay motivated doing my taxes while the girls all nap - sleeping sounds way better than Quickbooks data entry right now! This year might finally be the year I remember to download my statements before they disappear from the world wide web and I have to hand enter every credit card transaction for AT, BB and the Heffs one-by-one.. by-one... by-one...

(thanks for taking this great photo Emmy :)

Kaky's Song - and a "One Shot!" Video by Singer/Songwriter Molly

Our good friend Molly Coogan wrote and sang an incredible song as a tribute to Kaky before she died - we all still listen to "Kaky's Song" often but rarely without tears. We were, and still are, in awe of what Molly created for Kaky and the gift she gave us by writing, singing and producing this song.

(press play and keep reading :)

Molly is in NYC and an incredible actress, singer and songwriter. She is on a mission to create a music video for one of her fabulous songs with her good friend and movie producer Liam Brady. They are challenging themselves to create a first-rate music video in ONE SHOT and need our help... watch their great video explaining and if you want to support Molly just CLICK HERE to Kickstart their goal!

And thanks Molly- for such a beautiful and FUN reminder of Kaky who was ALWAYS so much fun.

Background on Molly and the Song (from a blog post two years ago)...

The Coogan's are all dear family friends and Molly's mom Anne has been right there with Kaky through a lot of her battle. We've shared a lot of great times with their family from when their dear grandpa met Kaky, fell in love with her and tried to set Kaky up with their son (right before she met Rich!) to our tea parties at Lovejoy's, family events, holidays and lots of shared laughs. It is an incredible tribute that Molly was so moved to write, produce and sing this song with her band members.

The story behind the song... when Kathy and Anne Coogan were alone recently at the hospital, she asked her what she was most afraid of? Kathy paused for just a moment and said, " That I will miss all the fun". Anne replied, "You are not going to miss a thing." And with such a level of calmness and assurance she said... "I know." After Anne shared this story with Molly, Molly said she "couldn't get the fact that she didn't want to miss all the fun out of my head." We can't get this beautiful song out of our head Molly. Thank you.

  • * * * * * KAKY'S SONG ~ BY MOLLY COOGAN * * * * * * * * *

Maybe I'm not ready to go
but you're - standing at my door
And the sun's going down and the waves are rolling in
Right across my shore

But, what if there's a party down the street
What about all the new people I could meet
and the stories we could tell and the laughter that we share
Oh, none of this seems to be fair

So don't make me go til the last glass is poured
Until everyone's asleep
And the lights are all turned out and the band is gone away
Oh, why won't you let me stay
'cause what if I'm gone before it's all begun
I don't wanna miss all the fun

When I sail across the wide eternal sea
When they carry me home will I still be me
Will my laughter still ring out
Will you hear me shout
That I am finally free
Will my memories still keep all my pictures of you
Will all my thoughts stay the same
And years after all of this is through
Will you still remember my name

So don't make me go til the last glass is poured
Until everyone's asleep
And the lights are all turned out and the band is gone away
Oh, why won't you let me stay
'cause what if I'm gone before it's all begun
I don't wanna miss all the fun

I don't need any parting gifts
I know my send-off will be grand
Let's just keep telling jokes and smiling hard
and never let go of my hand
Because each and every morning the grass will still be green
Mary will still glow and the dishes will get cleaned
And when your pouring tea into my favorite cup
I'll be off somewhere else living it up

So thanks for giving me the last big pour
I'd love to dance with you and drink some more
But the lights have all gone out and the bands no longer play
but I'm not really going far away

And I know it's only just begun. I'm so glad I had so much fun.

Yes, I know it's only just begun. I'm so glad I had so much fun.

***************************************************

Sarah, Jannie and Molly Coogan Dec 2007

and at Lovejoy's for Tea with Anne Coogan
"And the stories we could tell and the laughter that we share..."
You make us all laugh like this Kaky :) We love you.

and I remembered this video of Francie who had heard me play Kaky's Song so many times she knew all the words...

just CLICK HERE to donate to Molly and Liam- any little bit helps and you even get a souvenir reward for your donation in any amount!

iPhone Pics

Just a few pictures from my iPhone from this week. Francie went to Peet's Coffee one morning with Dad and walked around with her warm chocolate all day like it was her latte. And they are both still obsessed with their Dora polyester Pj's of course. Funny girls...

It was Emily's birthday this week so we went out for a girls night with some friends to celebrate at Evvia

Me and Janie on a girl's night date

We had breakfast one morning at Stacks with my friend Cat and her three girls - Cella, Phina and new baby Nanette. Afterwards we went to BB to play while Cat and I snuck away with the babies for pedicures. Ahhh it was a little more peaceful than breakfast was ;)

I had a meeting at The Village Pantry downtown Los Altos today and the owner, Julie, held Janie while I ate my breakfast- she had her behind the counter and serving coffee! I love this little coffee shop- Julie knows everyone's name and waves an American flag on the sidewalk every morning when she opens up shop. Beginning to feel like a regular in our "new town" now that it has been almost a year since we moved to Los Altos!

The creek on Tuesday the highest we've ever seen it with all this rain. I sent this pic to Heff and said "what island?" when the water was up so it covered the island and came up over the wall… I think I have more pictures on my real camera I'll upload for full effect!

Leaving Lousiana

Our New Orleans trip came to an end Saturday- We had brunch on Saturday morning at Broussards and then did some sight seeing before heading to the airport- the flight home was a little more eventful, getting us home at 3:30am but we made it and are still talking about what an incredible weekend we had in New Orleans with the Skidmores.

Jen and Heff with the girls at brunch. Nice face Francie ;)

Simo's at brunch

Sisters

Ann and Pat

After brunch we went on a carriage ride through town. We'd been trying to fit this in all weekend and I don't know who was more excited- Jannie or the girls

Jannie, Francie and Maisie sporting shades

Horses? Nope it's a mule! (they all are pulling carriages- our guide says they tolerate the heat and humidity better)

Janie's first ride

Giving the mule "Cash" treats after our ride

The Heff's taking on the town - skateboarding stroller on cobblestone streets and all

My brother and brother-in-law

Jackson Square

after lunch Heff took the girls swimming and I escaped to lunch with my mom, Jer, Ann and Pat before the left for the airport

So we left NOLA on a 7pm flight and changed planes in LAX. On the runway to SFO the pilot says SF is closed due to rain so we sit for almost two hours… get to SFO at 1am and our stroller/carseat don't come out for gate check. They tell us to go to baggage and then announce the cargo door has mechanical problem and they can't get it open… we WAIT and WAIT until 3AM for our bags! Girls were troopers and it could have been worse but we were so happy to be in our beds at 3:30am (5:30 new orleans time)

Jen & Zach ~ The PARTY!

After the ceremony we gathered at The Elms Mansion for the reception and to let the party begin!

Bridesmaids at the reception

Jen and Zach with Jen's family - Clark, Ann and Earl

My pretty flowers in my diaper bag- pretty much sums up the weekend juggling both :)

Bride and Groom as the sun goes down

Flower Girls waiting to come on in

Jerry and Jannie

Pat and ABA with her goddaughter (she did a great job keeping her happy from the time we left the hotel for pictures, through the ceremony AND the bus ride to the reception- nice work stand in mom :)

The tables were so beautiful- I LOVED these tablecloths!

Pat, My Dad and Heff camped out at the Champagne Bar (yum- four champs cocktails including my favorite French 75)

Francie and Maison

Chaos ensues at the request of a family photo…

close enough

and then Janie got MAD! :)

More champagne bar - a Simo family fav

Jen's First Dance with her dad

then they got EVERYBODY on the dance floor for some grooving to kick things off!

Daddy's Girls on the dance floor

The Worthing's looked so cute in coordinating outfits

Mr Worthing loves the babies

The girls say "Woo-Hoo!"

and Teddy was the cutest Ringbearer ever - he went up to Jannie later in the night and asked her to dance by taking her hand and doing a little dance ;)

I like this picture of my dad- the party animal

Although no one can hold a candle to my mom who closed down the bar TWO nights out of three- she is crazy and we love you for it Life-of-The-Party Jannie!

Earl and his father-of-the-bride toast

Cheers to that!

Jen and Zach thanking Ann for all the planning

Clark and Jer- the two trouble makers :)

The food outside under the tent was amazing- grits and shrimp, oyster bar, pasta, authentic Nawlins food- and THEN inside the house was another jazz band, more good food and so many more beautiful flowers!

The girls were running wild

Pretty cake.. and pretty yummy

Another New Orleans tradition, the cake had charms on bracelets baked in and each bridesmaid pulled one out…

One you licked the frosting off you found out which charm you got and Jen read us our fortune- mine was Bourbon Street so my fortune said I would be blessed with a lifetime of celebrations- I'll take it!

The boys

THe big girls still rallying at 10pm but looking a little tired

Jerry, Jannie and I

Cut the cake

Zach and his entourage of little ladies

Teddy loving his cake

Jannie and Lisa with Janie - Lisa was my "second mom" when I lived in their cottage and started my tutoring career on her four boys, I love Lisa and her family- and now she has a two month old grandbaby girl!

Here goes the bouquet

Gathering up all our stuff, can't stop taking pictures of these flowers/tables

Awww :) and now we're ready for the second half of the party… the Second Line!

and on the bus for the Second Line! The entire wedding party got dropped off by Jackson Square for a very NOLA tradition, processing through the French Quarter with hankies and beads lead by a Jazz Band - I mean how much fun can you have in one night?!

Here we go

Francie was waving her hankie like a mad woman on Pat's shoulders…

Clark!

Love this picture of my Dad and Ann

and my favorite pictures of the weekend- Mr and Mrs Neeley loving their parade!!! They are so cute :)

Going…

Going…

GONE

Jerry said "I'll take that Pat, I think she's had enough."

Little brother and Big Sis (and an impromptu baby sling so I had a free hand for flowers/pictures/beers)

Yup- especially beers ;)

Maisie outlasted her sis and got a RIDE on the horsey carriage with Jen's grandparents and Aunt. All she talked about all night and the next morning

Heff babyless for a short minute

Living it up with the Johnets!

This is where we broke off from the crowd (continuing on to Bourbon Street after party) and took the girls to bed. Luckily we conned one of the babysitters from the reception to come to our hotel room to watch the big girls while Heff and I went to the afterparty :)

Yup, outnumbered.

Francie kept falling over as Heff carried both of them and two diaper bags and Maisie held her head and said "I Got Ga-Ga!" good try at least Maisie.

Bourbon Street

and that's all folks :) What a fun day and night!!!

Jen & Zach's Wedding Day

Friday was wedding day! The ceremony was at St. Mary's Assumption Church at 5pm on Friday. We spent the day relaxing and getting ready, Jen was a VERY relaxed bride and everything was so well organized there was no stress or rushing around, just a fun day getting ready to watch Jen marry Zach :)

We went to breakfast with my parents and siblings (Pat slept in and we gave him a hard time for missing out of course :) at a little breakfast place- grits and omelettes, yum!
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Then Janie and I went to the Bridal Suite for hair, make-up, getting ready and hanging out with the bride!


Jen and I in hair and makeup! (and in matching outfits- just like old times! :) Jen and Zach live in Brooklyn so I found these cute hoodies for all the bridesmaids to wear getting ready

The DRESS! Jen's dress was gorgeous- Vera Wang and she added a black grosgrain ribbon sash. Traditional, beautiful and very New Orleans! She looked so pretty in the dress…

and the little girls carried these down the aisle… like little antique purses

Janie just hanging out before we put her dress on- didn't want to risk it getting dirty

Beautiful Bride in her dress!

Jannie came to tie the bow - she's the expert bow lady- perfect.

Brian managed to get the girls napped, bathed and dressed on time and we all met up to load the buses and head to the wedding at 4 (after some fun bridesmaids pics with Jen in the French Quarter, can't wait to see those)

The ceremony ~ (I was obviously without a camera in hand since I was on the alter but I hijacked these pics from Julie, one of the guests who is a photographer)

Mr and Mrs Zach Neeley!!!

Jen & Zach's Rehearsal Day

Thursday was pampering, touring the city, rehearsal and rehearsal dinner day - another full day running into friends and family in the hotel lobby or out and about downtown, it made me realize how much fun a destination wedding can be. Heff took the girls on their own adventure in the morning and wore them out (like we had to hold their eyelids open worn out) and after naps and the church rehearsal they got to play with babysitters back at the hotel while we went to a fun rehearsal dinner at the wax museum...

The ladies all went to get our nails done outside of town Thursday morning- I love that the nail salon had a full bar inside! Mimosa please :)

and while we were getting our nails done- Brian took Francie and Maisie to the water to see the ships and they found the NOLA Aquarium and Insectarium- what a find! They loved it and came back so tired we were practically pinching them to stay awake at lunch to eat something and get back to the hotel before they crashed

Walking above the alligator pit

Francie's Favorite- Bat Rays NOT Sting Rays

Walking back after lunch- a stroller on the streets of New Orleans isn't the easiest thing in the world but we managed (only a little grumbling from Heff, a stroller is like my security blanket but he prefers to haul three kids on his back and isn't so fond of my love of baby mobiles with wheels)

ABA and Pat arrived around 2pm- we met at the "Carousel Bar" in the lobby that actually spins! ABA got to met her goddaughter Janie for the first time

And of course we had to find a little pooltime in this weather while the stinkers napped

Maisie says Happy St Patty's Day after she woke up- little goof ball

Rehearsal at the Church- it was beautiful!

ABA came along for baby holding duties- she earned her keep as godmother this trip taking care of Janie while I had bridesmaid duties

Mom and her girls - trying to bribe them any way I could to behave and walk down the aisle like little ladies

Luckily there was a big girls there, Maison, who was 6 for Francie to look up to and want to be like… much more likely the walk down the aisle happens with a big girl around

Jen and Zach going to dinner after church rehearsal on the mini bus

The Rehearsal Dinner was in the New Orleans Wax Museum, a really cool venue for an event!

all kinds of godmother-goddaughter connections in this picture (Ann is ABA's, ABA is Janie's, Jannie is Ann's - and I'm just tagging along - are you confused yet!? :)



The place settings were so pretty- they had irish blessings tied to everyone's napkin

A date night for us with the girls and all the kids in the wedding back at the hotel with babysitters! Heff was nice and let me go straight to the dinner, he took the girls on the mini bus and got them all settled with two slightly overwhelmed babysitters :)

and lot's of good bonding-I-mean-drinking time with my siblings!

Janie and Jer enjoying the dinner - it was all served family style and cooked by a celebrity chef (but of course I forget his name now…) really good food

Jen and Zach brought each bridesmaid and groomsman on stage to say a little about them- it was really sweet and gave all the guests some background on why they choose us to stand up there with them on their wedding day

Texas Longhorns Groom's Cake for the native Austin, TX UT fan Zach!

There were a few other "St Raymonds" families we all went to school with - it was great so many people made the trip out and fun to catch up in a new place with old friends

One of the bridesmaids, Jodi, had a really cute game for them to play where they had to hold up a "face" to answer questions about each other - great idea!

It was such a fun night - and even better I got to eat dinner and listen to toasts with two hands! The wedding planners passed Janie around in the back and then a few friends rocked her to sleep, I love how popular newborns are :)

and we had to get a passing shot of as crossing Bourbon Street walking home after dinner… It was CRAZY! But we passed on the Bourbon St party on St Patty's day to go get a good night's sleep and be ready for THE big day Saturday.