We Love Baby Janie

Emmy and I tried to get a picture of the three girls in their "I Love Baby Janie" shirts (I had them at the hospital but they never made it on the babies - the boy version is tucked away for next time!) Turns out it's about impossible to get a good picture of a 3 year old, 1.5 year old and newborn- who knew?! Emmy worked her magic on a few- we'll try again when Janie can hold her head up on her own maybe :)

Proud Big Sis

"How many M&M's will you give us if we don't move?"

Maisie thought it was funny to drop her harmonica over the bed and then climb down in the 3 inch space and retrieve it. Francie the Sheriff said "Oh God- OH God." when she dove down there- we'll have to have a little talk about GOSH for future reference!

Dotting sisters

"Maisie you have to be GENTLE!!"

"WHAT is going on here?"

Not a chance

As close as I got to smiles

THANKS Maisie very funny :) Which Uncle taught you that??

It's all a blur

You'd think I tied her down… hey wait, good idea for next time!

Janie is not a fan of playing the dolly while one sister serenades her with a harmonica and the other tries to "see" her (let's hope not burn her- thanks Toy Story) with a magnifying glass

Ah safely back on mom's knee

Not for long- someone always wants a turn to hold her

My six BIG FEET

Two babies

Francie being Francie

Maisie being Maisie

Heff being a Superdad :)

This pretty much sums it up- life with three little girls is a little crazy but SO MUCH FUN!!!

Big Helpers

The big girls have been big helpers with a new baby in the house. They can usually be talked into running to get a diaper/blanket/whatever and are very interested in taking care of her. Life with three is busy but pretty fun so far!

Maisie is doing better than I thought- she has her meltdowns here and there (little diva!) but is really good around Janie and only wants Mom to hold her- I had forgotten Francie did that too- even when Jannie or Heff held baby Maisie she wanted her back on my lap. She climbs up on the couch next to her or stands next to her bassinet and squeaks a high pitched "Hi Nay-Nie! Tick-a-tick-a!" and likes to poke/point to her eye/nose/head (sorry Janie). She wants to hold her all the time but then throws her arms up and goes "All done!" after 3.5 seconds. (And I just realized in this picture she has confiscated her big sister's favorite polyester Minnie PJ's and somehow I don't remember the fight that should have ensued from this injustice!)

Francie is more maternal and will "babysit Janie" while if I have to grab something from another room. She is good at holding her head and kind of gets that you can't throw her around :) She tells people when they come over "You should probably wash your hands before you hold my sister. You might have germs on them." (flu season thanks you France) She tries to teach Janie lots of things already- manners, Spanish, right from wrong :) and takes her job pretty seriously.

"What's that!? A baby crying? go get her mom!!"

Francie has been getting into her "Responsibility Chart" for doing her chores and having good behavior. Of course Maisie goes in and messes up all the hard-earned magnets so we had to give Maisie her own chart- random animals and numbers that stick on like her sister's. She's happy with that :)

and a random review of our week…

2 out of 3 knocked out! Francie and Maisie spent the morning at Jannie's house Wednesday swinging, playing and going to the San Carlos airport for lunch! Francie was so worn out she fell asleep on the couch- which NEVER happens. We let her sleep from 5:30-8pm so of course she was wide awake with me until 11pm- we watched "Survivor" which she calls the camping show. At least she was in a good mood after such a late nap.

Heff cookin up dinner- our first night home by ourselves as a family of five Wednesday night

Thanks for the dinner idea from Oma for all the chard and kale we had from our FarmFresh delivery sitting in our fridge- Heff made a yummy dinner with bacon and onions sauteed with the greens. Maisie had a solo dinner with us while Francie and Janie were still sleeping! Francie woke up and goes "I missed dinner?!" like we don't have to practically force her to sit down and eat most nights ;)


Tuesday night Em & James came over for dinner with my parents to meet Janie- they were out of town for the weekend. Thanks for coming and for the treats guys! We had a seafood feast with filet of sole and shrimp salad. I love this "sit on the couch with the baby while people cook at your house" thing!

Jannie and Stinker #1 making appetizers for everyone

Maisie in her favorite apron squeezing lemons - I wish I could say they were for sidecars but I think these were for dinner!

Speaking of which- I love this eCard Molly Coogan sent me!

So tiny in the MamaRoo- which Janie likes but really just likes to be held- I'm not complaining yet since Heff is so good covering the big girls but you might see a lot more swing time once we get back to real life Janie!

Making a cake with Jannie- Francie was begging for Funfetti but Jannie was at Andronico's and they don't carry the high-class cake mix so she got sprinkles and they made a "homemade funfetti cake." It was delish- Heff and I take a slice off the cake every time we walk by it in the kitchen- still a few bites left :)

Big hugs for Jannie before she left to meet Grampa for dinner Thursday night since he won his case! Good job Grampa and thanks for all the help this week Jannie!

Bedtime! The bedtime routine hasn't changed much but it is more of a challenge with two of us and three of them! Maisie gets a book or two on her couch in her room (Jannie and I redecorated the day before Janie was born :) while she has her bottle (no more milk bottle in bed as she decided binky was more important- oops did I just admit I gave her a bottle in BED for a year of her life?!) then she goes in the binky/pillow/comforter haven of a crib with the rail down and we just cross our fingers she stays there. She gets it by now (no bed, no binky) and stays down most nights.

Some days she gets cranky and asks for binky- when we remind her only in bed she runs in to her room, climbs in her crib and takes a "hit off the binky!"

Oh the sisterly love. Playing happily one minute…

and too much one-sided "love" the next

and why not end with a sleeping baby?! Janie is so sweet- I know we haven't hit the 2 week "wake up" age but she pretty much still sleeps most of the day and does okay at night. The first week she was awake for 2 hours at some point in the EARLY morning (between 2:30am-6am- ouch) but last night at a week old she finally managed to be awake for a good hour around 11pm, eat at 3am and go right back to sleep until 7am, eat again and snooze until 10am! I can handle that… but I'm sure it will be a different story tonight since I am proclaiming out loud we had a good night :) I can deal- she's worth it.

Lunch Outing

Tuesday was Janie's first lunch out on the town!

Dressed up in a "real outfit" to lunch with the ladies

Oliver got to come too- I got him this cute flannel shirt from Gap and a size 0-3 month in case we had a boy… I'll just save it for the next boy born in the family! Sarah is due end of April and Andrea due end of August… we'll see!

Oliver and Kat

Christian the baby whisperer

I was pretty happy to leave the house (the only time I've left so far this week!) to sit at Rosewood and eat my favorite Cobb Salad, Arnold Palmers AND a glass of Prosecco :)

More Janie

She sure looks her sister's baby pictures huh!? Especially in pictures- but in person she really has her own look. She has a sweet disposition and so far she rolls with whatever we throw at her. She is sleeping pretty well (especially during the day ;) and goes 4-5 hours at night but likes to have one period of being awake for about two hours between 3-6am. I've been going back to sleep with her in the mornings. We have been hibernating in the house all week- I am loving to cold rainy weather and threats of SNOW (what?!) possibly falling tomorrow in the Bay Area. Just soaking up the itty-bitty baby phase while it lasts!!

She's had visits from Dr Cisco and checks out A-ok. She was 7 lbs 3 ozs on Sunday and he came again today (Thursday) and she was 7 lbs 11 oz. Good growing Janie.

and big news- her umbilical cord fell off today! :)

Swaddled up and trying on hats

Wrinkly little body

big yawn

"Ok mom enough with the pictures"

Knitted up (leaving the hospital - forgot I had these :)

Life at Home with Three

This picture pretty much sums up our first three days at home ~ sleeping, eating good food from family cooks and drinking champagne/wine together to celebrate! We had Oma here until Tuesday morning, Kat, Oliver and Uncle Ducky Sunday-Tuesday, Jannie every free minute we could get her, my dad when he wasn't preparing for the trial he's in, Emmy most afternoons for pictures and hanging out and lots of sibling and friends love too. Thanks for all the help and company! We've had no less than 6-10 people for dinner every night and no shortage of good food- thanks especially to Oma and Jannie for the around the clock granddaughter/daughter/son love.

Emily, Lucy, Jannie, Oma and Francie getting snacks ready for the troops and popping champs for the afternoon

Maisie loves "holding" babies! Here with Janie (3 days) and Lucy (5 months)

Double Doll strollers are good for tiny kids too

Assuming my favorite position (Maisie took this)

Swaddled and a rare moment of not being in someone's arms

See not everything in our house is pink ;)

Aunt Mimi, Uncle Andy and Cousin Drew came over from Aptos for some baby snuggling

Jannie and Francie decorated the gate with "It's A Girl" balloons

Oma getting a good laugh out of a near-miss "ear fetish" from Maisie (we already have one of those in the family right Izzy?!) Maisie was naming all of Oliver's body parts while he patiently played along. And seriously how big is this little cowboy!? 4 months old and about as big as Maisie

Exhibit B

Christian spoiling Janie with my favorite BonPoint outfit ever in her store (Heff goes - please tell me that's not cashmere?! At least he learns quickly!)

Trying the flowergirl dresses on for Jen and Zach's wedding we are all lucky enough to attend in three weeks! How many adults does it take to get Maisie's head through the right hole?

Jannie holding Janie - love these newborn gowns!!

We're so lucky to have you home with us Janie! You are a sweet little baby so far and a good excuse for a week-long family event of food and festivities :) Now off in a quiet house to take a nap...

Big Sisters

and pretty happy about it!

or at least happy about the cupcakes they made with Oma for Janie's Birth Day celebration dinner Saturday night

Lots of snuggling with their sister- and yes Janie is in there somewhere

Lounging Sunday morning

Dad and his trio

Big Sister outfits from Oma- living up to their new role

Sometimes I can't believe all three of them are ours!

notice the new improved safety rail so we can actually have furniture on our deck? Thanks Heff- Safety First… and Second!

Going Home

Saturday morning we got Janie's 24-hour blood draw to check her bilirubin level and she passed so we were cleared to go home! Oma and Jannie took the girls to the Palo Alto Children's Museum that morning and then brought them to the hospital to visit so we were all there to pack up and head home. Maisie was having a bit of a fit as it was past her naptime by the time we got out of there - so we were those people carrying a screaming toddler out of the maternity halls, scaring all the new moms. Jannie had the girls in tattoo-style "I love MOM" outfits for me, love them Jannie ;)

We got the wagon to haul all the bags but of course the girls wanted to ride in it- then Heff had to carry Maisie so it was just Francie riding like the queen! :) Little stinker pointed at me when I walked out of the room and goes "Ahhhh- why is there still a big belly?" Thanks Francie ;)

In her new grey JanKnits and trying out the binky for the first time (the reason Maisie lost it! I better try a different kind for this kid!) and you can tell it's the third child- she is going home in her hospital issued t-shirt!

Francie had to buckle her new doll in too- this one is named "Plussy" not sure about that one. (Maisie rode with Jannie and Oma, she knew there was a binky in Jannie's car!)

Welcome home MaryJane!

Janie's Arrival

We are so lucky to have Baby Janie home with us and can't believe how relatively smoothly things went bringing her into the world- besides the seven days overdue she made us wait to meet her!! My friend Emily's mom said my babies just like to stay in there where it's quiet since life is so busy on the outside :) We are adjusting to life with three- easy so far with so much help from our families. We are counting our blessings these days that is for sure.

Thursday night we had my parents, Oma, Mark, Sarah and cousin Clara over for dinner before we went into the hospital at 7:30pm. "Team Grandmas" Oma and Jannie took great care of the girls after we left overnight here the first night and all of them over at Jannie's house the second night! We forgot to take a family picture but here are the cousins.

I was hoping to go into labor on my own this time (breech baby c-section with Francie and then nine days over due/semi-induction with Maisie) I figured a third baby would come on her own but again I was wrong... So a week after my due date my doctor had me come in to the hospital to start an induction (since I am considered "VBAC" every time I can't be induced with the usual drugs and they do a Foley Bulb to induce which is a little archaic- TMI for the blog/my sister ;) This was the same thing we did with Maisie and Janie's birth was very similar… a little faster but still had it's ups and downs.

Heff is the best labor coach and partner I could ask for. He was and always is so supportive and sweet :) He helped me through the first 8 hours of contractions with a Foley Bulb and Pitocin this time before the epidural. Last time the Foley took 12 hours to get to 5cm and this time it only took 3 hours! But then, like last time, I was "stuck" at 5cm for a long time and they played with very low levels of pitocin but it turns out Janie had a cord wrapped around her neck so with each contraction her heart rate would drop a little. We tried changing positions on my side a lot to keep it up but it was a little scary to watch the monitors and try to stay in a position to keep her heart rate up. They had me on oxygen and were watching carefully.

Finally around noon I asked if I could sit up and her heart rate was better and she seemed to be moving in the right direction with a little gravity. After an hour I told the nurse the doctor should probably check in soon and sure enough I was 10cm and ready to go! Things happened quickly and after 20 or 30 minutes of pushing we met our beautiful baby GIRL!!!

First photos - a few minutes old!

She was just fine and got a 9 and 9 on her APGAR but because of the heart rate we had two pediatricians in the room ready to check her out, two nurses who were very good to us and five doctors who were all great. We love Stanford! They were all excited it was a "surprise" baby and everyone was placing bets. Heff stood by his girl guess and I was leaning towards boy so for the THIRD time in a row he was RIGHT and I was WRONG! How strange and unusual ;) He knows his girls!! I guess this makes us pretty likely to keep having girls- we'll take them!

Proud Dad of THREE girls

Our sweet nurse Kristin - we had her with Maisie too! We had a great nurse Susan for the first 8 hour shift and she said Kristin was in the nurse's station fighting to get our room since she remembered us from last time :) She was very supportive and calm and helped bring Janie into the world right before her shift was over!

Packed up on the gurney to head to Maternity - lots of stuff to haul. I told Heff I overpacked and he said "you think?!" ;)

We dropped Janie off at the nursery to get all checked out and cleaned up- Heff stayed with her and Jannie, Oma and her BIG SISTERS arrived to see their baby girl for the first time!

Uncle Jerry! He came to visit and helped me "set up" my room while everyone else was still with Janie in the nursery. I told him now he knows what Heff feels like when I kept saying "can you hand me this/get me that/hang this up" :) Thanks Jer!

Lots of cuddles and passing around - my two babies :)

Andrea (and Craig, isabel and Thomas) were here for the arrival too!

Jannie. Jerry and Janie :)

Dr Cisco was right over to check out all her moving pieces

as my sister commented "ouch, Janie is getting ignored for iPhones" Had to text/FB/blog it out there that Janie was here! It was so funny- after she was born we texted our moms and my sister to say it's a girl… 3 minutes later I get blown up with 12 texts saying "a GIRL!" the cyberspace waves went to South Africa within seconds to my god-daughter Claire who is there on a semester exchange and she posted it to my Facebook- crazy how fast word gets out now! We made everyone wait to hear the name until we could tell them and my dad in person.

my girls-

First Family Photo- the girls were SO cute meeting Janie! I have a fun video to post of Francie and Janie and Maisie just loves to "hold, hold!"

Welcome New Baby Girl Heffernan

We love you so much already!

Hospital Camp

I always love my hospital stay :) I love being a maternity patient and watching all the medical stuff around me- especially when I get to take home a beautiful baby at the end! This is what I've been doing:

Sitting on my bed pushing buttons to turn on lights/TV/music and holding this little person

Checking out all the nice messages everyone is leaving us on Facebook and the blog (thanks!) and having my "afternoon tea service" for the new moms in Maternity at Stanford.

My husband has hardly complained about his "bed" - he's engrossed in a good book and not even checking his blackberry.

But given the sleeping accommodations are a little rough for him and I have two girls waiting at home… my 4 nights with Francie then 2 nights with Maisie has turned into 24 hours in the hospital with Janie. We're out!

Family of FIVE!

Heff and his little harem of girls :) When Janie was born and we heard "It's a GIRL!" Heff said - "Three girls is awesome!" We are loving our time with Janie- the girls were so cute when they met her. They both got their own dolls and jumped right on the bed with me. There was a little scuff over who got to hold the baby first- Maisie pouted. But Francie took her turn quickly and then Maisie relished in feeling like a big sister and didn't want to give up Baby Janie. I miss my big girls but they are in very good hands with Oma AND Jannie. Here are a few more shots of the girls meeting their sister!

The Biggest Sister loving her new role of course

Maisie and Janie

Just hanging out with our babies :)